What Men Think About Flat-Chested Women?

Do men like women with small boobs? This is a question that has plagued 95%, if not 100%, of women since puberty, and it is not a bad thing to consider. It is simply part of self-discovery, which is something every girl passes through at a certain age.

Unfortunately, society through the lens of models, video vixens, actresses, and social media banter has made women think they have to look a certain way to look attractive to men, and when they don’t meet up to those standards, they begin to feel inferior, less confident, sad, and depressed, and some go as far as doing cosmetic surgeries when in reality, those are just less than one percent of what the greater percentage of men truly think about flat-chested women.

Want to know if you fall into the category of a flat-chested woman? A flat-chested woman is a woman who, unlike others, isn’t blessed with a generous amount of boobs. But every breast size has its perks and isn’t a bad thing or an abnormality. Small boobs can most times be genetic. If all the women in your family have small breasts, there is a high tendency for yours to be small for the same reason. Regardless of the reason, the size of your boobs is not something you have control over, just like you don’t have control over how beautiful you are or how short or tall you become.

As the saying goes, one man’s food is another man’s poison. What one person enjoys is a complete no in another’s dictionary. The truth is, all breast sizes are OK, and just like you would rather date a man with a big or medium endowment below the waist than a guy with a small one or vice versa, that is how guys see it too.

So, here is what men truly think about flat-chested women:  They think you are beautiful! Believe me, when a guy looks at you, the first thing he looks at is your face, not your boobs. And the first thing that can attract him is either your beauty, your intelligence, or your character. Your boobs are really not the first thing he is thinking about when he is looking at you; he is either thinking about how beautiful you look in your dress or how the highlights in your hair bring out your eye color.

They believe that there is a man for every woman. Big chest or small chest, it’s all the preference of different people, and truth be told, except for the fact that the size of your boobs determines how certain clothes fit you, it doesn’t really add or remove anything to your beauty, so why beat yourself up so much about something that wasn’t even in your control in the first place?

Unlike the popular saying that all men are the same, in this scenario, all men are not the same. Some men prefer boobs that fit perfectly in their palms during lovemaking to boobs that they may have a hard time controlling. And this set of men usually prefers perky and less saggy breasts, which are all the attributes small breasts have that big breasts are lacking.

According to a study published in 2013 in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, researchers presented male participants with five computer-generated 3D images of the same woman, each with a different breast size. The majority of them went for the medium-sized breast. This is to show that, unlike what you may think, the majority of the male populace prefers smaller boobs to bigger ones.

Medically, it’s easier to detect lumps of breast cancer in small boobs than in bigger ones, as they have fewer layers of tissue in them. This way, it’s easier to detect and fight cancer on time. So what you may be seeing as a thing of worry for you is actually a blessing in disguise.

Most times, men who prefer women with bigger boobs may not necessarily like the other parts of her, and research has shown that these men in most cases end up marrying women with smaller boobs because, at the end of the day, the size of one boob is not one of the things men look out for when searching for a life partner and future mother of their kids.

Most men like a well-proportioned body that comes with smaller boobs. They are turned on by oversized boobs, not small women with well-proportioned waists and buttocks, especially if she has had to have an implant or have increased the size at home organically.

It may come as a surprise, but some men don’t like boobs. They don’t see what all the fuss is about with big boobs and their perks. So for them, small boobs are a game. This kind of man will pick a flat-chested woman over a heavy-chested woman any day.

Men think that small boobies are sexy as hell. All you need to do is wear your self-confidence and know that the other woman is not more beautiful than you are simply because she is more endowed in the upper region. Boldness and self-confidence attract men more than big boobs do.

In a questionnaire carried out to know what young boys think about boobs, a particular response out of the hundreds stood out. He said, and I quote, “I would be more attracted to a woman with a small breast than a woman with gravity-defying implants any day.” Honestly, if a woman’s chest is seen as flat when she’s young, she is less likely to get saggy breasts when she gets older. Now you know that too small is always better than too big.

The truth about what men think about boobs is that it’s complicated. Size is a relative concept. Men’s preferences usually change with time and age, while most men are just happy to look at any boobs of any size. To them, it’s what’s on the inside that matters the most.


Regardless of what men think about your body, what is more, important is what you think about your body. It’s ok to have small boobs, but if you think having bigger boobs will boost your self-confidence, be sure you are doing it because you really want to, not because of a guy or because you think it is what most guys like. Because the truth is, at the end of the day, if you are not doing it for the right reasons, you may end up regretting it. You are amazing and beautiful just the way you are.