You’ve heard the saying that “good things come to those who wait“. The same goes for when you’re texting a girl on Facebook. You see, if you text the wrong message it can be a huge setback and make your chances of winning a girl become slim. It’s important to know how to properly pick up a girl so that you can not only get her number but also have something exciting to talk about afterward.
We all know that texting a girl for the first time can be intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. I’ve found a few simple steps that work for me. Become informed before you strike out.
In this article, I’ll be showing you how to text a girl on Facebook for the first time. When you text a girl, it doesn’t matter if you’re not very popular or if she’s not looking at her phone for long periods of time; there are still ways that work.
Whether you’re trying to ask out a gorgeous girl who smiles at everyone but hasn’t given in yet or just a friend of yours that seems very interested in getting to know you better, the steps here will help get your conversation going the first time and keep it flowing in the future.
How to Text a Girl on Facebook the First Time:
1. Get familiar with her profile
The first thing you want to do is head over to her Facebook profile.
You want to look at her profile, and see if she has any public information that you can use as your “bait.” If she doesn’t, then you can skip this step and go straight to look at her wall and see if there is anything interesting posted there.
If she has any public information such as pictures, posts, or other things that might be interesting to you, then click on them and then copy the link from where it came from. This will open up a new page in your browser where you can paste in the link for later use when texting her back about what happened on Facebook today!
2. Use an opener that you think she would like.
Do not just say “Hi” or “What’s up“, rather, introduce yourself with a good reason for friendship.
It’s important for you to have a good reason for wanting to be friends with someone else, so make sure that it isn’t something stupid like “I want to be your friend because I’m bored.” If you’re going to do this, make sure that the reason is something that’s actually true!
Start with an introduction. You can say something like “Hey there! I’m [your name] and I’m new here, and I hope to make new and interesting friends” It’s good to make sure she knows your real name so she knows who she’s talking to and that you’re not pretending to be someone else (unless you want her to think that).
3. How did you get in touch?
Tell her how you found her page and why you like it so much (or at least what your favorite song is). If she has pictures of herself online, tell her about them too!
4. Be polite
Be polite, respectful, and interested in her feelings. She will appreciate your attention to detail and the way that you treat her.
4. Do not act creepy or desperate.
If you’re trying to text a girl for the first time, it’s important to be yourself. If you’re acting creepy or desperate, she’ll be turned off and won’t have any interest in talking to you.
The best way to get her interested is to show her that you’re a cool guy who isn’t afraid of strangers. You can do this by making your profile photos a little more interesting and being willing to take risks — like posting pictures of your abs. You’ll want to make sure that your profile is filled out completely before sending any messages. Make sure your name and username are correct, as well as other details like your location and interests.
Again, do not pressure her into texting back right away. It’s important not to sound desperate or needy (even if you feel those things). Girls want men who are confident and optimistic — not desperate people who constantly need reassurance or attention.
5. Avoid asking too many questions.
When you’re starting out, it can be tough to know what to say. After all, you’re just getting to know your crush and they may not be as chatty as you are.
Avoid asking too many questions. The more information you give her, the more she’ll want to tell you about herself. And if she doesn’t want to talk about herself, don’t ask her questions like “What do you do?” or “Where do you live?” If she wants to tell you something interesting, she’ll say something interesting.
6. Keep the conversation going by showing interest in what she has to say.
Section: Find things in common between both of you – a simple way of finding things in common is to ask her about her interests.
Section: Do not put the girl on a pedestal.
Section: Make her laugh!
Section: Avoid using direct physical compliments, we want this to be friendly and subtle.
Section: Start building comfort by asking her about herself.
Section: Try to gauge her interest before asking her out, but don’t worry if you don’t get it perfectly right.
Takeaway:
You can successfully text a girl on Facebook for the first time, but be sure not to make any mistakes during the process.